CAN I GET A WITNESS?
cleavage jumpsuit right?
I love this elegant Brooke Coleman Jumpsuit paired with my Zana Bayne Basic Harness.
I like the opposing lines the two pieces create on top.
And who doesn’t love a little black and white contrast???
Also my hair has gotten CRAZY LONG.
In fact, it’s so long now that I get neck pain from the weight of it when I wear my hair up for too long.
But I’m not ready to cut my hair just yet.
Now…..I know I’m showing a lot of cleavage in this post….but I’m still fully dressed.
Although after the experience I had in just 10 MINUTES, IN BROAD DAYLIGHT, IN MANHATTAN, you’d think I was as naked as someone on https://www.tubev.sex/?hl=fr.
1. A male driver follow me in his car for 2 blocks asking me to get in.
2. A male cyclist ride next to me blowing kisses then tell me to fuck off when I told him to Shut Up.
3. A male tourist try to discreetly take a photo of my chest.
4. Men whistling and honking.
5. My taxi driver adjust his mirrors so he could stare at my chest in the backseat of his cab for the whole ride to Melodie’s house.
By the time I shot this outfit, I was pretty fuming.
Although through it all, us women have learned to rise above, and put a smile on our faces.
I HATE THOSE MEN FOR MAKING ME FEEL “SLUTTY.”
Even if I was wearing NOTHING….
Men need to:
LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE.
I SHOOT THIS BLOG FOR ME.
I WEAR THESE CLOTHES FOR ME.
BREASTS ARE MADE FOR FEEDING BABIES.
I’M NOT SHOWING CLEAVAGE BECAUSE I WANT ATTENTION.
MY NAME IS NOT BABY.
MY OUTFIT IS NOT AN INVITATION FOR ANYTHING.
EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENED ONLY MADE ME FEEL SCARED AND ASHAMED OF MY BODY, NOT SEXY.
Men will argue that I DO wear these clothes for their attention.
But would I be ranting and raving if that was the truth?
Getting hit with a baseball bat doesn’t hurt,
unless you’re the one getting hit.
Men take note.
Lipstick : MAC Diva / Jumpsuit : Brooke Coleman / Harness : Zana Bayne / Shoes and Rings : H&M
Photography : Melodie Jeng
” Like a city SM Chiquista ” :)
a presto, Antoine
The white jumpsuit alone would look great, but after seeing it with Zana Bayne’s harness, it’ is almost impossible to imagine the two aren’t always together. Especially against your dark hair and makeup, this outfit is all kinds of “yes!”
Now, about the more disconcerting part of your blog. Perhaps if more men picked up a fashion mag instead of a Playboy, they’d begin to understand that showing skin doesn’t mean sex, and certainly doesn’t mean consent. Sorry you had to put up with that.
I prefer the back to the front. I guess the front has too much going on and reminds me of a child’s harness too much.
It sucks that you can’t wear something like this without the unwanted male attention. I guess some men just don’t understand that a nice cleavage on display isn’t a present for the taking. I never show cleavage but wore red jeans not long ago and had similar reactions. Red jeans!
I hate being a man knowning I am the same sex as those fucking creeps, you are composed in the photos must of been so hard to focus on doing the shoot with all that happening, you are fully dressed are men like sex deprivated over there what a joke.
fav bit is the great matching, how the shoe tops compliment the belt harness.
Just found your blog after a share of the before/after photos. LOVE IT ALL! But loved this outfit so much I read the post and, having lived in NYC and worn a v-neck once or twice, I agree with everything you said. So sharing this with you to hopefully make it just a little more tolerable: http://jezebel.com/smile-bitch-training-camp-helps-you-look-happy-when-you-1617514627
Also- working in advertising, I constantly have to remind people that just about everything they see in a photo that they didn’t personally take is airbrushed or photoshopped in one way or another. Just keep reminding people!
In my case, it’s gotten to a point that I change my outfit if I think I would get that kind of “attention”, especially when I’m walking alone. I’ve had men shouting at me in broad daylight that they would like to offer me some oral sex – in not such nice words. And I’m no freaking Victoria’s Secret model, believe me, Plane Jane right here. Not all me are the same, thankfully. You look really nice and your hair is amaze-balls!
I just found your blog and I’m amazed with not only your style but you’re perspective of the world. I don’t think there is anything wrong with your outfit much like the opposite, you totally rule with those clothes, it’s just sad the way men mistreat women with no reason… The truth is that we must dress to ourselves and nobody else and you do it in such an exquisite way!
Keep posting new things because I sure as hell will read them, XO
Love your style! would you please link outfit details :(
For myself I would do this look with the harness on http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-3004374/Michelle-Mone-displays-extreme-cleavage-unbuttoned-blouse-Fifty-Shades-inspired-harness.html